This week I watched an episode of Army Wives with the sound off and then turned on. When I watched it without any sound, I could tell that the characters were all very close. I saw a lot of hugging, smiling and touching. These people did not look like family, but they obviously felt like one. I had to rely on a lot of facial expressions to tell me what they were feeling and expressing. Through this, I could see happiness, distress, sadness, and anger. I had a general grasp about what was really going on, but the lack of verbal communication made it really hard to understand the characters.
I watched the episode a second time with the sound turned on, and what a difference that made! I was able to hear all the details about each character and the plot. I really got to know the characters this time around, and I could even sympathize with them! I do believe that my assumptions would have been even clearer and correct if I had been watching a show that I watch regularly.
This assignment was really insightful and beneficial. I realized how important verbal communication is because I really did not comprehend crucial details with the sound off. However, I realize that nonverbal communication can speak volumes, so I am really taking a step back to examine myself in this area. Overall, I have to say that there needs to be a balance between nonverbal and verbal communication skills and cues in order to really be an effective communicator.
Hi Stacey,
ReplyDeleteI like how you said there need to be a balance between non verbal and verbal communication. We lose some much just watching someone without the ability to listen just like we lose alot by only listening to their words and not paying attention to how they are really feeling. It's important to be able to weave the two together. It really is how we can communicate accurately and efficiently.
Stacey,
ReplyDeleteGreat post! Glad to see that you are able to post with us! I love how you describe the importance of a balance for nonverbal and verbal communication.
I have learned that being able to hear verbal communication is an essential tool while working with adults and children.
Hello Stacey,
ReplyDeleteI, agree with you in regards to complement non-verbal communication has with verval communication they have to work hand in hand in order for a clear communication to take place. What comes out of our mouth needs to match with our non-verbal expression, and if they don't then we are not truthful and we loss credability.
Stacey,
ReplyDeleteYou said a key word in your post, assumptions. Though gestures and facial expressions are helpful, if you are watching someone from across the room, trying to read what they are feeling, your assumptions may be wrong. This assignment made me think more carefully about my assumptions.